Its Been a Long Day Without You My Friend Ill Tell You All About It When I See You Again

Jordy,

The things that I remember about before with a deep rooted clarity now, are not the things I would have expected to make a chiliad bear upon on my life. In fact, they are some of the most ordinary moments I always found myself in.

And suddenly, I'1000 thinking that maybe the ordinary in them is what makes them so impactful, so bright to me now.

These memories are not the very peaks of the mountain tops. They are non the dark grounds of the valleys. These aren't the moments that had me emotionally charged…for the good or for the bad. No, these memories lie in the broad open plains, the flatlands. These memories lie in the days when life was so damn normal I could run into everything that was laid out ahead of me and every single thing that at present belongs in the rear view mirror. Those were the days when everything was nestled comfortably in information technology's identify and there were no surprises. Everything was exactly every bit it should be.

It was in these days that I could look effectually and see how fortunate I was to exist given the life I lived. Information technology was in these days that being in the present was so like shooting fish in a barrel, and so simple.

It is those exact days that I find myself longing for now.

What I would give for just a niggling bit of normalcy. The kind of normal that didn't come up with a piercing pain moments after it was experienced.

The kind of normal that existed when y'all did.

There were times before losing you that I would close my eyes and twenty-four hours dream of the boggling life I wished to live. I wanted information technology to be filled with a passion so Existent that information technology literally moved me. I wanted to alive on the edge. I wanted to give up the reigns and lose control for the sake of this passion.  I wanted to be in the rocky terrain, roughing it for this dream.

And afterwards a very long 18 months, I have been forced to realize that a passion like that is oftentimes birthed through violent pain.  Through traumatic heartbreak. Through a magnitude of tears. And through an unimaginable loss.

Certain passions have a price that I refused to encounter until now.

I'm and so freaking frustrated by this.

I am and so ANGRY. So furious. That there is a passion within of me created in the backwash of everything you were.

Tonight, I don't similar it. Tonight, I don't want it. Tonight, I don't demand it. Because this evening, I don't demand annihilation but you.

But if I have learned anything at all in these last 18 months it'southward that life doesn't work similar that. Information technology's not fair. And sometimes the ane matter y'all genuinely want is simply virtually the merely thing in the world you can't have.

For me, that thing is you.

And I slowly spin back to that place where I don't sympathise how you could perhaps exist dead. I don't get it. I can't bridge the gap from our happy childhood to this empty life without you. I tin't finish the puzzle. I tin can't connect the dots. And I don't call up I will ever exist able to.

How in the hell did we get here?  Or rather, how in the hell did I become here without you?

Information technology'south a question that I will never stop asking. Considering how could I?

I will never stop wondering how I am supposed to live in this crazy world without my piddling brother.

My days lately have been filled with unsettling dreams. With sleepless nights. With tears and with total and complete exhaustion. I do not know what has come up over me, but I cannot terminate thinking about you. In everything, I await for you. And in everything I have been finding y'all. You, my sweet brother, hibernate in the strangest nooks and crannies of my life. And it makes me miss you so much more.

I never thought it was possible to miss someone this much. I never realized that death could be this devastating. That your absence could be this difficult for me to grasp. But I hateful information technology when I say I still have moments where I don't believe you're actually gone. And having to talk myself back into accepting your expiry are some of the worst moments of my life.

I miss laughing with you lot. I really miss sitting around the dining room table and laughing with you. I never thought I would have to miss that express mirth. I never thought I would have to look at a picture to burn your smile into my brain forever. I never idea I would have to write down every memory I could think of because in that location will never be a new ane once again.  I cling to every single detail I can remember about you, everything y'all meant to me and every single thing we did together.  I just never wanted to have to live a life where the memories I had with you were the only ones I would ever have.

You are and so missed.

I can't expect to run across you again. To wrap my artillery around y'all and force y'all to hug me for an uncomfortably long corporeality of fourth dimension. I tin't wait to tell you lot that I love you. I tin't wait to know exactly how y'all're doing. To be able to see that you actually are okay. To be able to stop worrying.

I'grand counting down to when I'll finally become my forever with y'all.

Love you. Always. Every second of every twenty-four hour period. And I volition never stop.

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